Best motivational Speech by MUNIBA MAZARI

you know what we human beings have a 

problem out of many problems there is one more and this is self-created one we always expect ease from life we have this amazing fantasy about life this is how things should work this is my plan it should go as per my plan if that doesn't happen we give up as my dear friends let me tell you once I never wanted to be on the wheelchair never thought of people I was always aspiring to do bigger things but had no idea that for that I have paid the price to be where I am today it's a very heavy price this life is a test and a trial and tests are trials are never supposed to be easy so when you're expecting East from life and life gives you lemons then you make lemonade and then do not blame life for that because you were expecting ease from a trial trials make you a stronger better person life is a trial every time you realize that it is okay to be scared it is okay to cry everything is okay but giving up should not be an option they always say that failure is not an option failure should be an option because when you fail you get up and then you fail and then you get up and that keeps you going that's how humans are strong failure is an option should be an option but giving up is not never we have this thing in mind we call it perfection we want everything perfect we want ourselves to be perfect there is this image in our head bumped everything perfect life perfect relationships perfect career perfect amount of money that we need to earn no matter what nothing is perfect in this world we all are perfectly imperfect and that is perfectly all right that's all right Europe we were sent here not to become the perfect people those people who tell you how to look perfectly with whose people are imperfect trying to fight this fear of looking imperfect I used to be perfect I still remember I got this compliment years ago when I used to walk oh my God look at you you're fair good to all you're perfect look at me now only the perfect eyes can see that only the perfect eyes will see that only the perfect eyes will see that so yes in all those imperfections you have to listen to your heart you don't have to look good for people you don't have to be perfect just because other people want you to be perfect if your soul is perfect from within that's alright this is all what you want this is all what you need to be our society has made very weird very weird kind of norms to look perfect and great for men it's different for women it's different we think too much about what people say with we listen to ourselves too little

you know what makes you perfect when you make someone smile you know what makes you perfect when you try to do something good for the people around you you know what makes you perfect when you feel someone's pain and how beautiful pain is that it connects you with people no other medium can connect you with others but pain that's why I always say that I'm in pain and that's the blessing in disguise for me today just because I'm in pain and I'm on the wheelchair I work for children being the head of CSR for a company we conduct medical camps in five areas of Pakistan where so many kids die because they don't have medical facilities I personally believe just because they cannot afford to live doesn't mean we let them die so we give them many we give the medical treatment we try to heal their wounds physical an emotional and I also worked for the beautiful people we call them their agenda the transgender community of Pakistan you know what connects me with them all my imperfections when I go and I hug them they never judged me and this very good friend of mine her name is digitally officially with electricity she called herself electricity and I said are you electricity is no I'm lightning I'm a strong as lightning we have because we have very bad power outage so she doesn't want me to call her P electricity so she says I am very strong I'm thunder and lightning she came to me and the first time I hugged her she said you are just like me and I said yes I am like you because two people we are so imperfect so how beautiful these imperfections are that because of these imperfections you can connect with people then why are we all running after being perfect what's the point every time I go in public I was like always a big Doody smile on my face and people ask me know what you desired of smiling all the time what's the secret I always say one thing and I have stopped worrying about the things that I have lost the people that have lost things and people were meant to be with me or with me and sometimes somebody's absence make you a better person cherish their emphasis it's always it's always missing in disguise I always say that people are so lucky they don't even realize you must be thinking okay you're lucky in what sense well the bread that you just took was a blessing embrace it there are so many people in the world who are dreaming to live a life that you are living right now you have no idea embrace each and every breath that you are taking celebrate your life live it don't die before your death we all die we live this one routine of a day for 75 years and we call it life no that's not life if you are still thinking why you have been sent here if you're still juggling with the concept of why you were here you haven't lived yet you work hard you make money you do it for yourself that's not life you go out you seek for people who need your help you make their lives better you become that sponge which can absorb all the negativity and you become that person who can emit beautiful positive vibes and when you realize that you have changed someone's life and because if you this person didn't give up that is the day when you live we were talking about gratitude why I smile all the time I cry all night but nobody sees me because I'm a human and I have to keep the balance and I smile all day because I know that if I will smile I can make people smile that keeps going be grateful for what you have you will always always end up having more but if you'll cry and if will crepe for the little things that you don't have or the things that you lost you will never ever have enough sometimes we are too busy thinking about the things that we don't have that we forget to cherish the blessings that we have I'm not saying that I'm not healthy and that makes unlucky but yes it is hard it is hard when I say that I cannot walk it is hard to say when I wear this bag it hurts but I have to keep going because never giving up is the way to live always so I'll end my talk in a very short note live your life fully accept yourself the way you are be kind to yourself be kind to yourself I repeat be kind to yourself and only then you can be kind to others love yourself and spread that love life will be hard there will be turmoil there will be trials that will only make you stronger never give up the real happiness doesn't lie in money or success I have his own and everyone real happiness lies gratitude so be grateful be alive and live every moment thank you so much everyone thank you